NOT MY TYPE!

On a normal playground, natural chemistry is instituted when a male is close to a female creature and vice versa. It is not a theory because the practicality of it clearly stands out right from the word go. This is how it works, the actuality of the matter! And as am thrilled with the surge to keep you apt with the existence of this chemistry, yet some sort of a phrase interrupts: ‘not my type’!

The bible is the founding knowledge on how to live for Christians and the Quran for the Muslims. Personally, I have never seen such a phrase in the bible – as a staunch Christian – whether one is someone’s type or not. My fellow Muslim brothers and sisters can also attest this, “he/she is not my type” is just but another specious cliché that keeps on assaulting the natural chemistry handed over to us by our maker. It a feed full of crap, no pun intended. Personally, I am in for the opinion that the-not-my-type-statement should be addressed to other species – let us say of a cow or a giraffe – if by any chance ‘they’ come to engage us; but hell no to Homo Sapiens.

Take a young gentleman from the village and this lady who is the CEO of a company in town. Factoring in the fact that they are all mentally stable, single and of course ready to mingle, natural Chemistry clearly outshines everything without any sheer. Very natural. That’s the architecture. Now, today this may never be that easy walk in the park because of a ‘demon’ called ‘not my type!’ This Gentleman fears intimidation because he has nothing to lavish on Madam CEO whereas on the other side of the coin, this lady subscribes to the notion of ‘operating on another realm’. So sad they are not each other’s ‘type’. That is Natural Chemistry under siege! And don’t get it twisted so that you wake up tomorrow very early in the morning to look for Ngina Kenyatta or to find yourself close to Victor Wanyama because Chemistry exists. As a writer of this script all that is in my mind is to maintain the decency. In a nutshell, when you bump along this dude or damsel along the Academic Highway, even while taking a cup of tea in Ropboll, let natural Chemistry take its course. When this demon called ‘not my type’ lurks anywhere around your midst, do not give it any chance. Shoot it!

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You find yourself admiring someone and wished you talk to him/her only to be disappointed by a slap of rejection (you are not the type). That’s life anyway but prayer every morning is key so that such misfortune(s) doesn’t befall upon you. Pledge your allegiance to Natural Chemistry. Let it take control and before you know it, good things will be running after you ‘pants’ down. And by the way, did you know that Natural Chemistry is responsible for all the working natural love-connections in creation? Be it human beings, animals and not even excluding plants. We are all a product of it. Anything can be strong, but natural chemistry (love) is stronger.

As I down my pen for yet another adventure, remember that the natural chemistry instituted right from the beginning should aim at spurring positive relationships amongst ourselves. The thief (as noted in the Bible) comes to kill, steal and destroy; likewise to ‘not my type’. Maybe it just came to steal away your man, maybe it is about to kill the existence of your future wife next to you or even destroy the birth of a very good friend. Be on your guard my friend!

Let us meet some other day as we make things go practical.

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